Mark HespethSUPREME COURT RULED-Friday June 26, 2015 that states cannot ban same-sex marriage. Equal dignity under the eyes of the law. Equal protection of who we are and who we love is not to be decided by any state. Thank you for your interest in A Perfect Gay Ceremony. I am an ordained non-denominational Wedding Officiant, Wedding Minister and Celebrant performing wedding ceremonies that respect the nature of spirituality in all its forms. I perform marriage ceremonies for ALL couples declaring their desire to get married without any restrictions or limitations. I am the guardian of the ceremony. It is not just "what" you say but "how" you say it that makes a difference. I make words come Alive! I will deliver your ceremony with warmth and good eye contact. I possess the highest standards in training and stage presence. I have great vocal skills and I will keep your guest interested and involved. I have successfully worked with couples from all over the world with one primary purpose to unite forever in love. I am professional, personable, easy to work with, and detail oriented. I will see to it that your experience is smooth and stress-free. I specialize in writing personalized ceremonies. The Ceremony Donations are designed to offer the finest Wedding Officiant services at an affordable price.

I have a passion for performing ceremonies rich in life, love and laughter. Whether you are eloping to San Francisco, having a City Hall Wedding, your wedding has been planned well in advance or is last minute, traditional, interfaith, non-traditional, themed or simple and sweet. I represent you as a couple and I will capture the love the two of you share on your wedding day.  I have excellent references. Please view my testimonials page, so you will know what to expect when you select A Perfect Gay Ceremony. It is my privilege to create and perform your ceremony and share the excitement of your love and joy on your special day with you!



  My Officiant Services Include:
  • A unique style and method of ceremony design and creation.
  • Experienced, personable, professional, detail-oriented Officiant for your ceremony.
  • Skilled in wedding day coordination and dynamics to create the perfect ceremony.
  • Wedding ceremony package fees are offered at an affordable price.
  • I will complete and file your marriage license to the County Recorder’s office.
  • Last minute elopements, Destination weddings and short notice weddings are always welcome!
  • Unlimited Email and Phone support for Simple and Sweet (SILVER) and Custom Ceremony Packages.

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Below are some of the venues and locations where I have performed ceremonies!
Fairmont Hotel, SF City Hall, Rotunda, Mayor’s Balcony, Sir Francis Drake Hotel, Golden Gate Bridge, Mark Hopkins- Top of the Mark, UC Berkeley Botanical Gardens, Mandarin Oriental Hotel-Sky Deck, Embarcadero-The Piers, SF Marina, Fisherman’s Wharf, Union Square, Cathedral Hill, Dolores Park, Museum of Modern Art, Palace of Fine Arts, Marin Art & Garden Center, W Hotel, The Spinnaker, Inn Above the Tide, Wildcat Canyon/Alvarado Park, Sausalito Women’s Club, Palace Hotel-French Parlor Room, Beach House-Pacifica, Presidio Main Chapel, Ralston White Retreat, San Mateo Coyote Point Park, Cliff House, Randall Museum, Lake Chalet, Redwood Grove, Coit Tower, Asian Art Museum, SF Cable Car, Chapel of the Lady, Napa Valley, Wine Country, Yerba Buena Gardens, Golden Gate Park-Japanese Tea Garden, Conservatory of Flowers, Memorial Grove, Chain of Lakes Meadows, De young Museum, Shakespeare Garden, Baker Beach, Fay Park, North Beach, Gary Danko Restaurant, Crissy Field, Numerous Private Residences…

I Proudly Serve the Following Areas…
San Francisco, Daly City, South San Francisco, Pacifica, Millbrae, San Mateo, San Carlos, Redwood City, Palo Alto, Mountain View, Sunnyvale, Santa Clara, Cupertino, San Jose, Milpitas, Fremont, Union City, Pleasanton, Richmond, Oakland, Alameda, Hayward, Castro Valley, San Leandro, San Ramon, Berkeley, Lafayette, Walnut Creek, Pleasant Hill, Martinez, Benicia, Concord, Mill Valley, San Rafael, Novato, Petaluma, Cotati, Rohnert Park, Napa, Sonoma, Santa Rosa, Vallejo...